(The sixth in a series of meditations on the Mysteries of the Rosary by Rev. Addisalem T. Mekonnen, Spiritual Director of the Philadelphia Senatus).
It seems like everyone wants please someone else to some degree,
for various reasons, depending on the nature of that relationship. A man dating
his girlfriend is going to do all sorts of things he may hate doing, such as
going shopping in the mall, because he wants to show how serious he is about
making sacrifices for his future wife. A girl dating her boyfriend is going to
do different things to make herself look more attractive because she wants to
please her boyfriend. Employees, who need to support their spouse and children,
will try to work hard to please their boss because they need a better position
in the company and desire a pay raise to offset the added expenses of a growing
family. Ultimately, no matter what someone does, they can never really be a
perfect “people pleaser,” because we were not created by people for
people. Rather we were created by God
for God. In some sense, it seems that
secular musicians and politicians are created by people for people. It’s interesting to note the different level
of stress they experience before and after they work in those professions!
Our blessed Lord always ardently desired to please His Heavenly
Father by being faithful to His mission on earth by doing the works that His
Father does, just as children do when they see their parents. Our Heavenly
Father and the Holy Spirit were manifested as the audience at our Lord’s
Baptism in the Jordan by St. John the Baptist. God the Father is the voice from
the clouds that says to Jesus, “This is My Beloved Son, in whom I am
well-pleased” (Matthew 3:17).
Our Blessed Lord was hidden, patiently standing in a long line,
surrounded by men and women struggling with sin, because He wanted to please
sinners by showing that His holiness does not serve as a barrier between Him
and them/us. Our Blessed Lord always
hates sin, but never the sinner. He is
the Lamb of God who came not to condemn the world, but rather to seek and save
the sheep that were lost. It is
important to understand the ancient understanding of the role of a king in
ancient times. King David normally would
lead his armies into battle, putting his own life at risk, like any other
solider, on the battle field. Our Blessed Lord is baptized by water before He
is baptized in blood at Calvary. He is
leading His own into battle, teaching us as disciples to indeed follow Him, as
He commanded.
Just as a loving
father would still recognize and embrace a son of his who is battling a drug or
alcohol addiction because of the bond between them, so likewise our Heavenly
Father embraces us as we battle against temptations because of the bond we have
as the Father’s adopted in Jesus Christ.
It is the Sacrament of Baptism which was instituted by Christ that is a
celebration of mercy that pleases both God and the people of God. I say not simply
“people,” but “people of God” because all those who at least to try to be
faithful, with the help of God’s grace, are pleasing to Him. Consequently, we learn in the Letter to the
Hebrews that it is impossible to please God without faith as the author wrote,
“Without faith it is impossible to please God, for whoever would approach him
must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him” (Hebrews
11:6 ).
Fr. A. Mekonnen